Hold up: I have a few questions. First- before you met, did she realize you were married? If that was new info and you jumped it on her, she may be skittish. Is she only reaching out during your work hours? Maybe she is just trying to be 'coy' and 'courteous' so you don't get caught. If that is not something you want, and you enjoy that excitement and are married, you should let her know that texting is encouraged. Also, is she going to school? 2 months really isn't that long for a sugar baby if they are piled high in the textbooks. Remember, communication is a two-way street.